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Spring Cleaning: Stop Thinking Negative Thoughts

Our mind is a powerful place! It houses our thoughts which we use to understand events, sights, sounds, smells, feelings, and the world around us. As a result, it’s important to make sure we are regularly cleaning our minds of negative thoughts that, when not checked, can begin to influence how we interact with the…

Sad african american woman sharing her problems at counselor's office how to interview your therapist
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How to Interview Your (Potential) Therapist | 22 Questions Before Your First Session

Your first appointment with a therapist is typically considered a “consultation.” In a consultation the therapist asks questions to understand your needs and wants from therapy. It is also an opportunity for you to learn what you can expect from the therapist. Here are 22 questions to consider for your first visit.

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5 Things to Say when Someone is Grieving

Death is a natural occurrence of life. Despite our many encounters with death, the process doesn’t get any easier. Furthermore, it can be incredibly difficult supporting a loved one in grief. Talking about death is hard and it can feel awkward trying to comfort someone in grief with cliché death phrases. Here are 5 things…

What is Self-Care? 12 Self-Care Tips for 2020
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What is Self-Care? 12 Self-Care Tips for 2020

What is Self-Care? We are all aware self-care has become extremely popular over the past few years. It’s often associated with images of spa days, massages, shopping, and vacations. Others have used self-care and coping interchangeably, but they are not the same.  What is self-care exactly? Self-care is any activity performed to maintain mental, emotional,…

Black Trauma + The Stages of Grief
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Black Trauma + The Stages of Grief

After the “national awakening” to experiences of racial injustice, a debate sparked about the “correct or appropriate” way to honor police brutality victims or protest racial inequality.  Some argue protesting SHOULD be done in a “respectful”, peaceful manner only. While others believe protests can be nonviolent or violent.  The stages of grief is a familiar…

How To Find a Culturally Competent Therapist
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How To Find a Culturally Competent Therapist

How To Find A Culturally Competent Therapist Typically, before therapy officially begins, there is a consultation between the client and potential therapist. The meeting is an opportunity for the client to express their needs and for the therapist to assess the client’s needs and their ability to address them. One topic that is rarely discussed…

What is Grief?
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What is Grief?

6 Myths and Facts About Grief My Thursday started great with a to-do list that I was excited to tackle. I received a call from one of my coworkers and was prepared for a cheerful chat. I asked her how she was, “not so good” was the response I received. My coworker then uttered the…

Being Black in America is a Death Sentence
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Being Black in America is a Death Sentence

How To Process Racial Trauma I ignored Ahmaud Arbery’s murder when it was announced in February. Shortly thereafter, a well-known social justice organizer called the African American community and associated allies to demand justice for Ahmaud Arbery’s murder. I refused the invitation and told myself, “nothing is going to happen, nothing ever happens” and continued…

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Hello World!

Why? As mental health continues to grow within various racial/ethnic populations and social groups, it is evident a safe space to discuss mental health within all the realms of life is needed. Vulnerability on other streams of media can serve as an outlet but unfortunately it exposes people to misinformation and judgement.  Welcome to Minds…